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I'm Suzette. I'm 22 years old. I'm majoring in History and Classics and have minors in Theology and Psychology. I post mainly about my favorite tv shows and other fandoms. Other random interests I sometimes post include food/drinks, pictures I find cool, specifically seasonal or holiday pics, books, amusing things, etc., and some personal posts. If you want to know more, just ask, I love meeting new people :)

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Dear MIABELLUCCI,

Normally I try to stay out of the drama that happens on tumblr and I try my hardest to keep my opinions to myself even when I get offended by the things other people say. And I DID try to just keep my mouth shut but I really feel the need to say something. First, I want to say that I am NOT the same anon user who recently called you out on being overly rude for correcting someone’s spelling.  Whenever I get pushed past a certain point where I’m actually going to get angry and say something instead of staying quiet, I have no problem letting people know exactly who I am. I really don’t mean to start a lot of drama by saying this (even though I know that I will) but I feel personally offended and I need to speak my mind.

Honestly, I don’t see why you’re surprised that someone accused you of hate. I’ve followed you for a while now and never had a problem with you at all until Buffy Confessions started, then once that site got popular I’ve seen little but hate from you. It’s really starting to upset me. You accused fans of the show of not being true fans just because they dislike one character or relationship that is a big part of the show. How dare you say that they’re not real fans just because Spike and Spuffy are big parts of the show and they happen to dislike them? A person can hate one character or one relationship and still love and be a fan of the show, it just means that they can think critically about the show and decide for themselves what their opinions are without just accepting everything in it as being wonderful. Since you seem to be such a big fan of James Marsters and are rushing to defend him against people who dare to accidentally misspell his name, perhaps you’d like to know that he himself thinks that Spike was abusive towards Buffy and that Buffy should end up with someone else. Personally, I love Spike too, but there are other characters and relationships on both Buffy and Angel that I don’t like, but I still think that I am a huge fan of both shows and to be honest, a better fan than you because I can accept that other people have different opinions than mine without accusing them of having psychological issues and that they have to project issues they have with themselves onto Spike and that MUST be the only reason why they hate him. If a person doesn’t agree with you about a fictional character then the only possible explanation in your mind is that they’re self-hating and are projecting that onto poor innocent Spike? Really?! No. And you’re coming off as super pompous for thinking only your point of view can be right and I’m sorry, but your theory is complete bullshit. As for Spuffy, I’m sorry but I’m not really a fan of their relationship. I like Spike and Buffy separately but the main reason I like their relationship is because I find it interesting how disturbing it was and I would never consider them to be soulmates or anything like that. But I respect the opinions and viewpoints of both the Spuffy and Bangel shippers, even though I personally don’t ship EITHER of those couples. Unfortunately, you have too much hate for everyone else in the fandom that doesn’t agree with you to be the same way. You’re so worried about any confession that is anti-Spike or anti-Spuffy that you accuse other fans of not being true fans or having psychological issues that really you’re being more immature and hateful than anyone else. I’m real sick of seeing your unnecessary hate for other people in the fandom and accusing other people of not being fans just because they don’t agree with you. Honestly, whenever Buffy Confessions started, most of the hate and drama was coming from you and once you blocked it (or stopped carrying on about it or whatever you did) most of the drama stopped. If it bothered you that much you should have ignored it instead of attacking people. The whole point of the site is for people to express their unpopular or embarrassing opinions without fear of being attacked for thinking differently than the majority of the fandom. People like you are the reason why other people feel the need to be anonymous and use sites like this. It honestly sickens me. And you admitted yourself that you were mean to that person who made the typos/misspellings. Was it because they didn’t seem to ship Spuffy that caused you to be extra rude to them for no reason or are you always a troll?